I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single. A lot of advice I get from others is that you need to build up hobbies and activities of your own so that I am not just waiting for him to give attention and have time for me. Jack is right about the demographics. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Salaries for doctors are declining, with my boyfriend telling me that some nurses now make more than the lowest paid medical specialty - pediatrics.
He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. Some other times I feel alone in my marriage. I have had several people tell me that now that they know our family all preconceived notions of the "doctor's wife" and the lifestyle of a doctor have completely changed. I completely agree, but I think the critical part is that he needs to talk to her. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. If you do not have a lot of time together, make every second count. How Soon to Call after a Date. It's a heart-wrenching story.
But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. And to top things off, last night I caught him cheating. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies. That ended in OP should do the most honest thing possible. Right off the bat, I have to admit that being married and committed to our marriage has been of utmost importance for my husband and I - throughout all of his training. It doesn't get better. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky.
We both love eachother and I support him as he supports me while im in school as well. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. I say, Follow your heart. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever.