Be prepared to experience many disappointments, such as missed events, delayed arrivals and early departures due to patient needs. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. You have to be so strong to be on your own so much. But he has been great till now. Hopefully you two will be on the same page and can be open with each other so that you have matching expectations. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. What advice do you have for a newbie. I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me.
I love this post and this perspective. With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. It really can be that simple. Of course they do.
I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses. What a fascinating response as always. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years. We are indeed in two different places. You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community. His whole family joined after he did.